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The Currency of Time: Because Time Is Life Measured

“Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away” (James 4:14)

We spend money as though it is our greatest asset, yet money can be earned again. Time cannot. Every day, we wake up with a fresh deposit of twenty-four hours. How we invest that deposit ultimately determines the story of our lives. Time is the currency of life, and once spent, it cannot be refunded.

Every year for my birthday, I pause and take inventory of the year that has passed. While many people celebrate January 1 as the beginning of a new year, my birthday has become my personal New Year; a time of reflection, gratitude, evaluation, and recalibration.

As I step into Year 54, one truth has become clearer more than ever before:

Time is my most valuable asset.

Last year, I published a workbook and became a student of my own process. As I completed the Harmony Circle assessment, I found the experience both awakening and sobering. Some areas of my life showed healthy balance and strength. Faith and spirituality, joy and peace, purpose and career, health and wellness, growth and learning, and relationships reflected years of intentional cultivation. Other areas revealed opportunities for growth.

Finances and stewardship needed greater attention, though I could clearly see progress and movement in the right direction. Like many people, I’m not yet where I want to be financially, but I am grateful that I’m no longer where I once was. Then there was the category that surprised me most.

Time and Energy.

It wasn’t just my lowest score, it was my greatest revelation.

We all receive the same twenty-four hours each day. No one receives more. No one receives less. Yet while time is distributed equally, energy is not. Energy determines how we experience our time and where our lives are ultimately invested.

The question isn’t merely, “How am I spending my time?”

The deeper question is:

“What is receiving the best of my energy?”

As I reflected on my life, I knew exactly where most of my time and energy were being invested, my job.

Work itself is not the problem. Scripture teaches that work is honorable and meaningful. Yet I found myself asking a difficult question:

Am I spending my life on what matters most?

Not my hours. My life.

Because time is not something separate from life. Time is life measured.

When we give our time, we are giving portions of our lives that can never be reclaimed.

Money can be replaced.

Opportunities can return.

Possessions can be recovered.

But once a day is gone, it is gone forever.

Moses understood this truth when he prayed:

“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12)

Notice he did not pray for more days.

He prayed for wisdom concerning the days he already had.

As I evaluated the past year, I realized I desire something more than financial freedom.

I desire time freedom.

I want the full capacity of my time.

I no longer want my availability for family, rest, travel, service, creativity, or purpose to be determined solely by someone else’s schedule.

I want the freedom to spend a Tuesday afternoon with family.

To take an unexpected trip.

To enjoy a staycation in my pajamas without requesting permission.

To answer the call of purpose when it comes.

To be fully present with the people I love.

At this stage of life, relationships matter more than accumulation.

Presence matters more than possessions.

Impact matters more than image.

I have never been someone who pursued opportunities solely because of compensation. Throughout my life, I have made decisions based on value, meaning, purpose, and alignment.

Years ago, I learned something that has stayed with me:

No employer can ever pay me what I am truly worth.

Not because my skills are irreplaceable.

But because what I exchange for compensation can never be replaced.

My time.

My time is my life.

And my life belongs to God.

The Apostle Paul wrote:

“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:15-16)

The phrase “redeeming the time” means to buy back every opportunity and use it intentionally.

In other words, don’t drift through life.

Steward it.

Many people think stewardship is primarily about money.

Scripture reveals something much deeper.

Stewardship is about managing everything God has entrusted to us, our gifts, relationships, resources, influence, health, opportunities, energy, and yes, our time.

Time is not merely a scheduling issue.

It is a stewardship issue.

The enemy of purpose is often not distraction.

It is unconscious living.

Days become weeks.

Weeks become years.

Years become decades.

And one day we discover we have spent our lives reacting rather than intentionally living.

If you do not plan your time, something else will.

If you do not define your priorities, someone else will.

If you do not establish boundaries around your energy, others will gladly consume it.

Your calendar is often a greater reflection of your values than your intentions.

This birthday has reminded me that every season deserves reevaluation.

What served us in one season may not serve us in the next.

The goal is not simply to live longer.

The goal is to live more intentionally.

To be present.

To be purposeful.

To be aligned.

To invest our lives where our hearts truly reside.

As I enter Year 54, I am not asking, “How much more can I accomplish?”

I am asking, “What is worthy of the life I have left to give?”

Perhaps that is the question we should all ask.

Because at the end of our lives, it will not matter how busy we were.

It will matter how faithful we were with what was entrusted to us.

And among all the gifts God has given us, none may be more precious than time.

Be Encouraged. Be Blessed. Be Enriched. Be Authentically YOU.

What God Was Doing While I Was Waiting…

“What I thought was delay was often God developing roots I couldn’t yet see.”
— Kimberly E. Beasley

There are seasons in life when we wonder if anything is happening at all.

We pray. We wait. We trust. We keep putting one foot in front of the other. Yet nothing seems to move according to our plans or our timeline.

Then one day, we look back and realize that while we were waiting, God was working.

It has been several years since my last blog post. In those years, life has unfolded in ways I never could have predicted. I lost my mother. I faced a brain tumor and underwent brain surgery. I navigated the challenges of Cushing’s disease while continuing to manage Lupus and Myositis. I wrote another book. I continued serving, teaching, and watering wherever God sent me. Some seasons were marked by grief, others by healing, and still others by growth that was happening beneath the surface where no one could see it.

Yet even in those moments, God was working. Not always in ways I could see, and not always according to the timeline I would have chosen, but faithfully nonetheless. Looking back, I realize that some of the greatest growth in my life happened during seasons I would never have volunteered for. God was teaching me to trust Him when I did not have answers and to find peace in His presence when circumstances made no sense.

Like many people, I have asked God, “Why now?” and “Why this way?”

What I continue to learn is that God’s timing and our timing are rarely the same.

We often want immediate answers, quick breakthroughs, and visible results. God is often more concerned with preparation than presentation. Before something manifests in our lives, there is usually a season of development taking place that we do not fully understand.

The life of Joseph illustrates this beautifully.

Joseph received a dream from God as a young man. He knew God had spoken, but he could not have imagined the journey that would follow. Before the dream was fulfilled, Joseph experienced betrayal, slavery, false accusations, and imprisonment. Years passed between the promise and the manifestation.

From a human perspective, those years may have looked like detours.

From God’s perspective, they were preparation.

The pit prepared him.

The prison prepared him.

The waiting prepared him.

Every experience developed the character, wisdom, humility, and leadership Joseph would need when his appointed time arrived.

When Pharaoh called for Joseph, the opportunity appeared suddenly. Yet the truth is that God had been preparing him all along.

The manifestation was sudden.

The preparation was not.

I believe many of us find ourselves somewhere in that preparation process.

We may not understand why certain doors closed, why certain relationships ended, why grief visited our lives, why health challenges appeared unexpectedly, or why the journey has taken longer than expected. Yet Scripture repeatedly reminds us that God is working even when we cannot see it.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 tells us, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”

Not our time.

His time.

That verse does not suggest that every season feels beautiful while we are living through it. Rather, it reminds us that God sees the complete picture while we only see the current chapter.

Looking back over the last several years, I can see God’s hand in places where I once saw only uncertainty. I can see growth where I once saw delay. I can see purpose where I once saw pain.

The waiting was not wasted.

The losses were not meaningless.

The diagnoses were not without purpose.

The lessons were not accidental.

God was preparing, strengthening, pruning, healing, and teaching.

As I return to this space, my encouragement to you is simple: do not despise the season you are in.

If God has given you a promise, continue to trust Him.

If you are grieving, allow Him to comfort you.

If you are healing, give yourself grace.

If you are growing, embrace the process.

If you are waiting, remember that waiting is not the same as being forgotten.

Continue watering what God has placed in your hands.

Continue learning.

Continue growing.

Continue choosing faith.

When the appointed time comes, what God has been cultivating beneath the surface will become visible.

Until then, trust the process and trust the One who is ordering your steps.

God’s timing is never late.

God’s timing is never wasted.

And God’s timing is always purposeful.

Be Encouraged…Be Blessed…Be Enriched…Be Authentically You!

Scars and Tears

Scars and Tears

You have made it through the tumultuous times of yesterday. That is proof you are strong and resilient. Your scars are the stories of the triumphant battles you made it through; you survived. Your tears are the lyrics to your soul’s song. Never be ashamed of their flow. Lyrics so complex only the Divine’s ear can interpret. God is listening ever so intently to the melody of every well, roll, drip and drop. Take peace and have solace in knowing that you are an over-comer; you’re never alone and there is a greater plan which includes you.  Your life is invaluable…Never be ashamed of its opus!

Be Encouraged…Be Blessed…Be Enriched…Be Authentically You!